I was delighted to have my second comic published on The Nib yesterday! The script for this one is by Josh Trujillo, and the art is me. You can read my other Nib comic here. You can find more of my work on instagram, patreon and my website.
Warning! Pussyaids2 is now Pussyworms! They are harassing minors and calling them very fowl slurs. Block and report!
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-Mod Ouma
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-Mod Ouma
Reblogging this on all my blogs, this needs to stop. Weâre going to have to run @pussyworms out of tumblr. If you want to block, I suggest covering your screen when you go there. Stay safe
Sorry for another reblog but Iâll tag some people
I know it can be a nightmare to dig through the tags and see all those asks and not the guides. So here is a handy-dandy list of all the âofficialâ how-to posts.
FYI: This used to be a rude advice blog. It is not any longer. Some of the really old guides still use that format, but as they are updated with more information, theyâre edited to fit the new, less abrasive format. For more info, please visit the about page.
All posts are written by Jez (@typesetjez, formerly called âThe Responsible Oneâ) unless otherwise noted.
hot take: moms need to learn how to listen to and comfort their daughters without making everything about their own traumas
a classic example
daughter: hey this thing you do bothers me very much and i wish you wouldnât do it
mom: well my parents abused me and im not even as bad as they were and i had to sit through it so you gotta sit through whatever i do to you too
a common variant
mom: well iâm having a really hard time right now and you know that iâm doing my best and that i didnât mean to hurt you ergo you are in fact the asshole for asking me to consider your feelings and change my behavior during this hard hard time iâm having
This is a very important post about how to recognize problematic behavior in narcissistic mothers. It is also something we all need to watch out for in ourselves, especially if we were raised by a narcissistic parent.
Because if thatâs what youâre used to, you can grow up wrongly believing that this is what sympathy is supposed to sound like.
I have, numerous times, talked about having a bad day, and had a well-meaning acquaintance tell me how much worse their day was, honestly believing that they were being sympathetic â that telling me how much worse their day was would somehow make me feel relieved, or grateful, that my day wasnât as bad as theirs.
Of course, it did not make me feel better. It made me feel like my experiences were being trivialized, and like my feelings were being invalidated.
I know these people werenât trying to be cruel. They truly just didnât know better. They thought they were empathizing.
If you didnât grow up learning what genuine sympathy looks/sounds/feels like, itâs hard to know how to show genuine sympathy for other people, even when you really do care about them.
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