franticchaos:

ameliaglitter:

jamaicanblackcastoroil:

gluten-free-pussy:

afronerdism:

gluten-free-pussy:

Lately I’ve been doing this thing where when men give me shit at my job, I choose to instead speak to their wives/girlfriends/female counterpart. I had a dude today try to yell at me and I ignored him and instead spoke in a very level voice to his wife instead. He literally stomped his feet like a fucking toddler and said “stop ignoring me! I’m talking!” And his wife said “George, please use a quieter voice. You’re embarrassing me.”

You are a genius and I’m using this

Lol I learned it from my mom. She does this all the time and eventually the guy either sulks off somewhere or adjusts his behaviour and THEN she’ll address him. I did this with my friends puppies when I was training them and it works the same tbh

Whenever a married couple calls in escalated, I always address whichever one seems the most rational. 9/10 it’s the wife. Usually, the husband gets cut out of the conversation until we’re done.

Memorable quotes:

“She’s explaining it to me now and you were wrong.”

“Honey, stop talking so the nice lady can help us.”

“Why don’t you go have some coffee while Amelia and I figure this out? Hmmmm?”

“I understand it and I will explain it to you later. Let me get this taken care of.”

“I understand, sweetie, can you explain it to my husband real quick? [aside] Now, you listen to this lady and don’t interrupt!”

Calm wives in the face of their overemotional husbands are a customer service lifeline.

Reblog to save someone from unnecessary bullshit

youhaveaguineapigwhere:

little-boyking:

little-boyking:

little-boyking:

youhaveaguineapigwhere:

ech0winchester:

ech0winchester:

youhaveaguineapigwhere:

Okay, I’m gonna do this. Not because I’m asking for attention or a pity party (I’M JUST A POOR BOY, I NEED NO SYMPATHY.)(Sorry, I had to.) not because I’m asking you to go off or send hate to this person, but because issues like these need to be addressed, and because I legitimately think this person is going around purposefully harassing and disrespecting trans and non-binary people and their identities.

IT WAS HALLOWEEN 👏 WHEN I WAS 8 👏AND LIVING IN A HOMELESS SHELTER👏IM SORRY👏IF MY PUNK LOOK👏INSULTS YOUR EYES SO MUCH👏 MAYBE GO WASH THEM OUT WITH SOAP OR SOMETHING👏

I think this person believed me to be a trans woman, or something of the sort, and judging by the way they replied to my friend it seems like they were also harassing a trans man that day.

“But they look like a woman sis” and “fine, die mad about the fact that your friend looks like a woman.” Were both stated before they made clear they realized who my friend was talking about, saying “ohhh is it…” and then proceeding to pull up the picture of me again, stating: “yeah he’s a boy” and a string of insults I won’t even get into, followed by: “They have secondary Male sex characteristics and don’t pass as anything other than Male. Sorry I don’t make the rules sis.”

It seems like this person’s main goal is to disrespect people’s gender identities and tell them they only look like their gender assigned at birth (or what they assume is their gender assigned at birth) and then they settled for telling me I can’t look like either if I’m nonbinary. So I’m warning you all, and if any of you have already gotten shit from this dickhead please come to me and let me know. We’re in this together, spn family or not, I’m here. Always keep fighting.

Say it with me now:

I CAN LOOK LIKE WHATEVER THE FUCK I WANT

Adventures in being a dick to dicks

Warning: it’s gonna be a long post. But I’m having fun so, FUCK IT

Buckle the fuckle up, buttercup, cuz there’s more

This is so entertaining if it wasn’t infuriating .-.

M boutta block him soon, just need to find the right closer

I loved this ted talk.

Here I go

🤨

moisemorancy:

overwatchs:

insanusrexryan:

mystic-beavty:

its-a-good-little-bullshit:

Think about what you were saying when they used to talk to you. Think about your choice of words and tone. Think about why they tried to come to you and why they don’t anymore. When you shut them out, belittle them, and blame them for all of their problems, you will lose them. And that will be permanent.

This.

My therapist legit called my mom out on this shit. She keeps calling me a “non-functioning adult” and my therapist heard her say it and was like “WOAH! Ok you need to stop that immediately. Do you realize you’re belittling her? That you’re labeling her for life? You then judge her for having low self-esteem and drive to do things when you actively oppress her by labeling her like that.” And I glanced at Mom and him and Mom was like real quiet and was like “okay”. She has yet to say it since. So yeah. Parents don’t even realize this shit. And I’m almost 21… This happened less than a month ago. You are talking to tiny humans. Treat them that way! Like a human!!!

Also!!! Not to detract from this point but to add on: are you initiating interactions with them? (Beyond reprimands and etc.) Just like with any other relationships in your life, if one side always has to be the one to ask for attention and start conversations, its inevitable they will assume you just don’t care about them. Why would someone come to you if they think you don’t care about them past controlling them or punishing them?

🗣🗣🗣

dimples-of-discontent:

Things I look for in a guy:

• Kind, like Misha Collins
• Intelligent, like Misha Collins
• Encourages people to make their world better, like Misha Collin
• Handsome but not vain, like Misha Collins
• Possesses dry wit and sarcasm, like Misha Collins
• Immense capacity for silliness, like Misha Collins
• Hot but a little shy about it, like Misha Collins
• Confident and self-possessed, like Misha Collins
• Up for anything at any time, like Misha Collins
• A kind and good friend, like Misha Collins
• Sexually adventurous, like Misha Collins
• Can run marathons and also do yoga, like Misha Collins
• Wonderful and silly with children, like Misha Collins
• Can build own house, like Misha Collins
• Writes and publishes poetry, like Misha Collins
• Establishes own international charity, like Misha Collins
• Breaks multiple Guinness World Records, like Misha Collins
• Plays a beloved character on a decade-old TV show, like Misha Collins
• Is Misha Collins

uselesspileofstressandsadness:

idkwhatimdoingbutimgonnacontinue:

uselesspileofstressandsadness:

idkwhatimdoingbutimgonnacontinue:

violetswhiskey:

biggest-gaudiest-patronuses:

wait is the gender neutral title ‘Mx.’ a fucking pun

im so fucking mad

Somebody explain, I’m stupid

Mx. is pronounced ‘mix’ and it’s a gender neutral title (I’m using it in one of my stories) for nonbinary people, people who do not identify as girl/woman or boy/man.

I get that, but how is it a pun???

Bc nonbinary people (taking into account that nonbinary literally means not female or male) can be a mix of genders, more masculine or feminine, or neither. Sometimes all equally, sometimes fluid. I’m using nonbinary as a summary as everyone who does not identify as a binary/cis gender.

They are a mix.

They are a Mx.

Same sound.

gaypeopletwitter:

duskodair:

i-have-no-gender-only-rage:

finally a petition I can get behind  

at least 2 of the disciples are behind it too apparently